Believe It or Not: “Spouse” Isn’t a Prerequisite for Homeownership
Believe It or Not: “Spouse” Isn’t a Prerequisite for Homeownership
If you’re living the single life, why pour rent payments into someone else’s investment when you could build equity in a home of your own? Whether you’re a single lady, fellow, or anyone in between, buying a home solo is more achievable than ever. To help you navigate the journey, we’ve gathered expert advice from real estate professionals. Here are five essential tips for single homebuyers:
1. Define Your Long-Term Homeownership Goals
Start by asking: Why do you want a home? Is it a stepping stone for future family plans, a financial investment, or an escape from rising rents?
“This may not be your forever home, so shop for what fits your current season,”
advises Chantay Bridges, Senior Real Estate Specialist at TruLine Realty. Consider timelines carefully — if frequent travel or relocation is in your future, homeownership might wait.
2. Assess Whether Your Lifestyle Aligns with Homeownership
Your daily habits matter.
“A home shouldn’t make you house-poor,”
warns Jerry Koller, Broker at International Home Realty. High mortgage payments could strain budgets for social activities or travel. Conversely, if you anticipate lifestyle changes (like starting a family), prioritize space and location flexibility.
3. Consult a Financial Advisor and Lender
Before browsing listings, scrutinize your finances.
“Know your debts, potential future expenses, and payoff capabilities,”
says Bridges. Lenders can reveal budget realities and highlight special programs — from first-time buyer incentives to occupation-specific grants. Brandon Ramirez, a solo buyer in Austin, credits his Realtor for guiding him through lender paperwork and eligibility checks.
4. Create a “Must-Have” vs. “Nice-to-Have” Home Checklist
Prioritize practicality. Attorney Justin Meyer suggests evaluating:
- Size (bedrooms/bathrooms)
- Location (commute, amenities)
- Neighborhood vibe (family-centric vs. social scene)
- School district quality (even without kids)
“A physical list prevents wasted time on unsuitable properties,”
emphasizes Koller.
5. Commit with Confidence
When you find a home that
“feels like yours the moment you walk in,”
as Bridges describes, act decisively. Ramirez reflects on his solo purchase:
“Being the sole decision-maker streamlined the process.”
Trust your preparation, and embrace the excitement of this milestone.
Final Takeaway: Homeownership as a single buyer isn’t just possible — it can be empowering. With clear goals, financial clarity, and expert guidance, your keys to a new chapter await.
